welcome to my blog
welcome to my blog
i'm Michelle Gregory, a 55-year-old wife, mom, Jesus-lover, beginning French learner, and Arizona native who moved to Montana 6 years ago (yeah--that was a huge change). i collect way too many craft supplies (and occasionally use them), spend way too much time on Instagram and Facebook, obsessively check my email, and own 2 horses, 2 dogs, and 1 very large black cat. i've been working on the sequel to my one fantasy novel for 9 years (don't you feel better now?). i haven't done anything here for a long time, but maybe jumping back into blogging will get the writer side of my brain humming again.
all of that may be more than you wanted to know, but anyway...
June 25, 2010
four awesome writers (Angela Hunt, Kathy Mackel, Nancy Rue, and Jim Bell) had all kinds of wonderful things to say to us at Glen Eyrie-- advice on writing, on being a writer, on being inspired, on continuing to work on our novels...
out of all that good advice and instruction, one thing has stuck with me after two weeks of being home. it's something Jim Bell said, and he said it in the context of obstacles to writing, one of them being criticism.
his advice: "Let it hurt for 15 minutes and then move on."
good advice. difficult to follow.
it's easy to be hurt by what others say about our writing, or what they say about us in general. but staying hurt can be debilitating. it keeps us stuck in the past and then we can't move forward. i know. i've been there many times.
i've realized that his advice can apply to all kinds of things in life. it's easy for me to feel guilty for some of the choices i've made in the past. to feel bad about something i said to one of my kids. to worry about the future. to nurse the pain of a bad conversation. to think that i have no business being a writer.
in the future, i'm going to try to follow Mr. Bell's advice. i'll let it be painful for 15 minutes and then move on.
now that i'm thinking more about it, 2 hours after posting this, maybe it's better to let it hurt a little, then give it to God and ask for his peace instead of the hurt. that way when the hurt comes back, as C.H. mentioned in her comment, i can leave it with him and listen to him tell me the truth about it.